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Wedding Ring Customs and
Traditions
Here
in the west, we have certain customs regarding the
exchange of wedding rings that seem perfectly normal to us: a double ring
exchange where the groom puts the ring on his bride`s hand followed by the bride
doing the same for the groom. Types of rings used are typically gold or
platinum, with the woman`s ring often encrusted in diamonds.
Changing Customs and Lasting Traditions
Elsewhere, the way that rings are exchanged, the types of rings used, and
certain other formalities are acceptable, customs which are often brought with
them when families emigrate abroad. Is there a right way to give and exchange
wedding bands? Yes: whatever way you feel is right! Customs are changing, but
one thing remains the same: couples are sealing their marriage vows with an
exchange of rings no matter where they live in the world.
The Rings Given –
Without a doubt, gold is the metal of choice for brides and grooms when they
marry no matter where in the world that they live. Platinum is also prized, but
often too expensive for couples living in emerging nations, while silver is
favored by some who appreciate its look and value. Diamonds, and less popularly,
other gemstones are often included, particularly for the woman`s ring. Some men
are coming around and accepting diamonds on their own rings, but in most cases
men prefer a wedding ring that is understated.
The Way that they are Presented
– Ring bearers are sometimes included in wedding ceremonies to present the
wedding bands 
to the
bride and the groom. In other cases, the best man will hold the rings and
present them at the appropriate time during the wedding ceremony.
In some European countries, the bride's wedding band is the same ring given for
engagement – the only difference is that a special engraving is made (usually
with the wedding date and sometimes the names of the couple inscribed). Which
hand the ring ends up on can vary from country to country and from religious
faith to religious faith; these days most modern brides simply choose the most
favorable way to display their wedding bands that appeals to them alone.
The Meaning of the Rings
– In all cases, the exchange of wedding bands symbolizes the couple`s fidelity
to each other. For the devout, wedding bands represent that plus their
relationship to God whom they see as the central part (foundation) of the
relationship.
Some women prefer to wear their wedding rings on the bottom of their finger with
the engagement ring first, while for others just the opposite holds true. The
“closer to the heart” meaning is important to some, while the convenience of
easily removing the engagement ring while at work or doing chores is important
to others.
One, Two, or Three or More Rings?
In time's past, only one ring would be given and that ring would be from the man
to the woman when they got married or were first engaged.
A different
economic climate limited the options of yesteryear's couples, but in many cases
those restrictions are no longer in place.
Today, couples from around the world are enjoying an economic tide that is
raising the financial prospects of billions of people, allowing the man to give
an engagement ring, the couple to exchange rings at their wedding ceremony, and
the couple once again exchanging eternity or anniversary rings later on in their
marriage.
Whichever way that you choose to demonstrate your love, quality engagement,
wedding, and anniversary rings are bands that are meant to stand the test of
time, symbolic representatives of your relationship.
Call Robert at
Incendia Diamonds for further advice on engagement rings and wedding bands or to
set an appointment for a jewelry fitting - 858.692.3939
